So, I’ve been seeing a lot of familiar names coming back! God, it’s hard to tell these days what it might have been from. I’ve also been getting a lot of new followers. So, a few things.

Hi, I’m Iapetus! I’m a genderqueer bisexual who is also polyamorous. I’m in a loving, long-term quad relationship with two trans women and one nonbinary individual. I’m a writer, and I’ve written a lot of fanfic (though I did have like a 10 year break - I’m only just getting back into it).

When I first started tumblr, I was big into Dragon Age. That’s also where a lot of my friends here came from. I don’t really blog much about it anymore. I’m unsure if DA4 will get me back into it. Most of my new follows are from FFXIV or Warhammer 40k, it looks like.

I’ve really been into D&D and table top games for a long time, but its really amped up in the past 5 years from being able to play with my partners. You’ll often see me talk about our characters.

In terms of fandoms, the biggest ones you’ll see right now is FFXIV, Warhammer 40k, and What We Do in the Shadows.

A lot of stuff I reblog is random. As in, I couldn’t really show you a theme. I saw it on my dash and reblogged.

For new people: you gotta have content on your blog. It doesn’t have to be anything specific, I just want to know that you’re real and not a pornbot. If you don’t have content I’m going to assume its a pornbot in training and just block you.

I try to tag anything that I feel like people have a reason for filtering. If there’s something I’m not tagging, you’re welcome to send an ask. I won’t publish it, and I won’t ask any questions.

Oh, and there is often adult content on this blog. I can’t say with any sort of regularity how often it will appear. It happens as it does, and I do tag for it.

thessalian
captain-price-unofficially

JD Vance getting booed everywhere he goes so he has to ask the secret service to evacuate the entire city block so he can go to a restaurant is one of the few good subplots we have right now

antifainternational

if you see a right-wing figure in public, ruin their day in whatever way you can. If you're not willing to go to prison, you can still at least make a scene and make them worried about being confronted every single time they go outside.

middleearthorcseeksspaceorc

When possible; You have no tables for that evening. Or any evening during their stay. Yes, I know but we don't cancel reservations unless there's been a catastrophic event that might endanger our regular long time customers. Am so sorry that we are closed that night for a wedding reception that was booked 6 months ago.
I'm so sorry, but that stylist/colourist/nail technician is not available for the next few weeks. Absolutely booked up.
Isn't it terrible how everything is booked up and under renovations and closed for the owners anniversary? Just as awful as some of the staff having been exposed to mumps and measles and got horribly sick at the church potluck.
Did they some how slip in anyway? Oh we're completely out of salmon and the toilet is making a funny noise and the cook broke their wrist and there's a little problem with wiring for the lights and we can't get a number of things to work right, and the health department wrote us up about the floors not being clean enough, but you won't mind at all.

What ever you can come up with, do it.
Embody the Horrible Goose you are meant to be.

cheesiestart-redux
so-much-for-subtlety

something that is still a culture shock for me is eagerness of Americans to wear pajamas in public

keepcalmandcarriefischer

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keepcalmandcarriefischer

Is it socially acceptable to wear PJ's in public?

(American) Yes!

(American) Generally frowned upon, but not a prblem

(American) No!

(Not American) Yea

(Not American) No!

(Not American) See the notes for the nuanced answer from where I live

thessalian
t00thpasteface

repeat after me once again folks. just because the banana was good does not mean you should keep going and eat the peel too. at some point you have to accept that you can't recapture the lightning in the bottle and no sequel or spinoff or other new installment of that thing you like is gonna make you feel the way you did when it was brand new, especially if it was something from a very formative time in your life. you have to ask the waiter for the check eventually

magnetsorwhatever
bass-pro-ship

image

ok this dni has me sobbing

  • proshippers are the ONLY thing on the list
  • this person doesn’t know what they are
luxlightly

I've written at length about the inherently performative and neo-puritanical nature of DNI culture and the stigma and vitriol around the term "proship", including their ties to fascist dogma, historical violence, and anti-queer sentiment but none of it sums up the issue better than this one line written without a drop of irony.

"I don't know what this is and openly admit the definition is purposefully so vague that anyone can fall under it when necessary, but it's required that I loudly and even violently condemn it or else I will be labeled as part of the morally degenerate"

It's not about safety. It's not even about telling anyone that they shouldn't interact with you. It truly, truly, just exists to loudly exclaim "I AM PART OF THE CORRECT MORAL GROUP BY DECRYING THE INCORRECT MORAL GROUP". You don't need to know what "the incorrect moral group is". In fact, trying to find out is taboo in and of itself. You just have to hate it.

ikiyou

And yet another good PSA to the kinds of people who write DNI:

Only you are responsible for keeping yourself safe online. You have no inherent rights or authority to tell any kind of other people to not interact with your blog. You also are not capable of knowing what kinds of people interact with your blog in most cases. The only methods you have to protect yourself on tumblr are:

  1. The block button
  2. The 'no anon asks' button
  3. The buttons that make your posts non-rebloggable or non-commentable
  4. The 'make my blog or posts private' button
  5. The 'scroll past stuff I don't like' movement of your fingers

People are not required to go to your blog homepage to read about your education level and mental issues (aka, your inability to keep yourself safe).

If you feel like you need to post DNIs, you need to get off the web, honey, it's not safe for you.

DNIs are also a great way to expose yourself to harrassers and trolls. You make yourself unsafe by posting DNIs.

fred-the-dinosaur

I can't see a dni without hearing 'i saw goody sarah at the devil's sacrament'

maybethings
ymutate

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Rukiye Garip,B. (1964) Turkey

Watercolor on Paper 22 W x 29.9 H x 0.1 D in

lemondoddle

[I.D. a hyper realistic watercolor painting of stones underneath clear, rippling water. end I.D.]

thatqueerchoirkid

WATERCOLOUR?????

thatqueerchoirkid

I was like what a nice photo. What a nice painting. WTAER COLOUR???? I was gonna sdume

This was oil paiyt or something DAMN BRO WTAERCOLOUR???

maybethings

thessalian
the-grollican

not saying its a bad poem but when you read charge of the light brigade you really understand that it is a certain part of the british psyche which led them to go die in polar expeditions . the young english man longs for the glory of going to die badly and pointlessly

the-golden-vanity

#the imperial propaganda really went hard on this#it took the collective trauma of wwi to break it#john irving literally has 'dulce et decorum est pro patria mori' on his grave#people used to believe that shit#and the Brits still have a weird cultural fondness for the idea of “heroic failure”#nothing more manly than a futile and grotesque (but very very brave!) death somewhere unusual (tags by @gairfowl)

rubyvroom
dykepuffs

I have the most beautiful news which is - When my eldest niece was a toddler, we all - Me, two of my biker friends, and four generations of my family - went to see the fireworks at the beach, and she got cold and sleepy so I wrapped her up in my leather jacket and denim kut covered in patches from bike rallies and sat her on my bike so she could warm herself up on the still-hot engine, where she fell asleep.


Her Mam took a photo, and I jokingly said "One day, if she's gay, she'll be able to impress girls with that picture."


Anyway, today she texted me and said that a girl she likes was really impressed with the photo of her as a baby hanging out with the bikers.

thessalian
cyberneticnightmares

saw an elderly woman walking around with a tote bag whose design were the four AO3 fic category squares and she very excitedly asked if i was a reader or a writer bcs nobody else at the con had recognized it, and after telling her that i've been writing fic since fanfic.net, she solemnly nodded and explained that she'd been reading fic since "the days of personal websites" but that she only started writing fanfic when she was 47 and oh my god when i tell you that i genuinely teared up on the spot!!!!! like!!! HELL YEAH???? LITERALLY NEVER TOO OLD TO START WRITING. NEVER TOO OLD TO WRITE AND SHARE YOUR FIC.

her enthusiastic "i'm a very nice and bubbly person, i swear! but i love writing angst and major character death :)" nearly took me the fuck out.

icon. legend. diva. i wish her nothing but a kajillion million comments and kudos. i hope her fic updates crash AO3. i hope she knows i'm promoting her to my personal patron saint of AO3.

faejilly
Anonymous asked

Anonymous asked:

I understand that vaccines are proven to work and are a great advancement in our medicine, and also that homeopathic remedies don't work, but don't they work on the same principal? Why does one work and the other doesnt?

ms-demeanor answered

ms-demeanor answered:

They do not work on the same principle.

I can see how vaccines look like a “like treats like” situation, but in homeopathy “like treats like” is a kind of magical thinking.

Let’s take an example from Chicken Pox, a virus for which there is an effective vaccine and for which there is a common homeopathic treatment.

Chicken pox infects people once, and it is extremely rare to get a second case because once you have had it, your body forms persistent antibodies against the varicella-zoster virus. When I was a kid, they didn’t have a vaccine for this, so kids mostly got chicken pox once and it ran around whole schools and that was it. It’s a virus that is fairly minor in children, though it can cause dangerously high fevers. Adults who get chicken pox typically get much sicker than children who get it, and it can lead to permanent harms like infertility in adults who get it. Because it can be so dangerous, we don’t want people to risk getting it, so we vaccinate.

The way the vaccine works is that it takes a weakened form of the virus and introduces that into the body of a person with a healthy immune system. The immune system responds and the person who got the vaccine may get some minor symptoms, like a headache or a slight fever, but it will be nowhere near as severe as getting actual chicken pox would be. Because the immune system was exposed to the virus and responded, it now has antibodies against the virus that recognize the virus and respond immediately before it can start replicating in the body. If a person who has either previously had chicken pox or who has been vaccinated against it is exposed to the chicken pox virus, their body uses those antibodies to react to the virus and protect against a systemic infection.

Are you familiar with Star Trek? It’s kind of like the Borg. You can’t use the same attack pattern against the Borg multiple times because if you do, they’ll recognize the pattern and will be able to defend against it. The virus is the attacker, and your immune system is the Borg. It knows what it’s looking for and won’t let anything get through its defenses.

Homeopathic remedies don’t seek to prevent illness or provoke an immune response, they seek to cancel out something that is happening in the body.

For chicken pox, which produces itchy red bumps, homeopaths use Rhus Tox - a dilution of poison ivy, a plant that causes itchy red bumps if you encounter it in nature. The Rhus Tox didn’t cause the chicken pox, it’s not given to prevent the virus, it’s from a plant that is completely unrelated to the virus that happens to produce some of the same symptoms as the virus when you touch it.

They don’t even think that the Rhus Tox will provoke an immune response from your body like actually touching poison ivy would, they’re attempting to use an unrelated compound (that is so diluted that it isn’t even present in the preparation) in place of your immune system to attack the itchy red bumps.

So I’m going to go over this in a few brief points:

  • Vaccines are preventative ONLY, they are not a treatment for illness or symptoms of an illness
  • Vaccines work by introducing your immune system to a partial, weakened, or dead virus so that your immune system can form antibodies against that virus and prevent that virus from replicating in your body when it is later exposed to a whole/strong/live virus.
  • Different vaccines have different levels of effectiveness and produce different lengths of immunity; this is for a number of reasons, but if you get a measles shot as a kid you may only ever need one booster, while you need a flu shot every year and a tetanus shot every decade. All of them work the same way, though: they show your immune system what a virus looks like so that your immune system can kill the virus.
  • That is why immune compromised people sometimes can’t be vaccinated, or why vaccines don’t work as well for them or may need higher doses or more boosters. Because they don’t have a healthy immune system, weakened viruses like the ones in the chickenpox virus might be too strong for their immune system to fight, and even if it doesn’t get them sick, their bodies may not be able to produce enough effective antibodies to protect them from the virus in the future. That’s part of why it’s important for as many people to be vaccinated as possible; the more people who are vaccinated, the harder it is for viruses to spread, and vulnerable people like immune compromised people or babies too young for vaccination won’t be exposed to deadly viruses.
  • Homeopathy, on the other hand, aims to treat symptoms of an illness that a person is already experiencing.
  • Homeopathic treatments do not aim to provoke an immune response, they aim to cancel out a symptom with a cure.
  • Dilution is a very important part of homeopathy, with homeopaths claiming that the more diluted a preparation is the stronger it is. This is simply incorrect; I don’t know how to make a more logical explanation of that, it is just wrong that less of a substance causes more of a response.
  • Homeopathy says “like treats like” and that may seem like using a vaccine with a weak virus to prevent infection from a strong virus, but their version of “like” is different - Rhus Tox (poison ivy) is supposed to be “like” chicken pox because both cause itching. Rhus tox is also supposed to treat PCOS, erectile dysfunction, uterine prolapse, sunken eyes, nausea, and backache. “Like” can have an extremely broad meaning in homeopathy, which should be cause for suspicion.

Here’s a paper that compared the immune response of college students given homeopathic “vaccines” against a control group and against a group of students who were given standard medical vaccines. The control group and the homeopathic group both did not have an immune response in titer tests, while the vaccination group did have an immune response, demonstrating that they had protection from the vaccinated viruses. It’s a pretty good demonstration both of how effective homeopathy is (not at all) as well as how to set up a fair and ethical study to look at the effectiveness of different kinds of treatments.

heyftinally

I think it's also important to point out that homeopathic methods can provide a certain amount of natural relief, although they do not cure anything.

Drinking peppermint tea when you have a sore throat isn't going to make your sore throat go away faster, but it might provide some relief from the pain.

A heavily spiced tea isn't going to cure anything, but it might give some temporary relief from a stuffy nose.

No soup is going to cure your illness, but it will give your body some much needed vitamins, minerals, and electrolytes that will help it fight off the illness and recover more quickly.

And sometimes things just straight up do nothing but make you emotionally feel better - that's okay, too. Just know what are realistic expectations for what you're doing.

No home treatment is going to cure your infectious disease - either you're going to fight it off with antibodies, or you'll die. But your home treatments might make recovering from it less miserable, especially if you're taking medication for it. Meds often taste terrible, but if you can follow it up with a spoonful of orange-infused honey, it'll taste a lot better.

ms-demeanor

It's actually really important to point out that none of those are homeopathy. You might call drinking tea with honey or drinking broth home remedies, but they are not homeopathy.

Homeopathy is *very specifically* the dilution of substances in water to use water's memory to treat illnesses on the principle of like treats like. Calling drinking tea for a sore throat "homeopathy" is like calling stretching "chiropractic" or calling all massage "acupressure."

In the last decade or so people (largely people who want homeopathy to be taken more seriously) have been expanding the use of "homeopathy" to cover more and more home remedies and CAM practices, it's important to know what the actual meaning is so that people don't start to conflate "drinking tea" with "drinking water that was once near a leaf of poison ivy" because it legitimizes the latter.

People who have had a cold and felt better after having some warm soup (clear liquids! vitamins! minerals! protein! rehydration and nutrition, which you need when you're sick and will make you feel better!) who think of that as "homeopathy" are going to see people discussing homeopathy as a scam, quack practice that does tremendous harm and they'll think "what is that person talking about? homeopathy is just putting lemon and honey in tea for a sore throat, it's fine" which will make them more resistant to criticisms of actual homeopathy and will perhaps make them adversarial toward discussions of evidence-based medicine.

This is semantic creep that needs to be firmly addressed; that was NOT a common definition of "homeopathy" when I started getting deep into exploring the world of CAM and quack medicine fifteen years ago, and I'm a bit concerned that it has spread as far as it already has.

(not a criticism of prev, btw, just addressing a distressingly common misconception!)

ruffboijuliaburnsides

As someone who was raised being "treated" with homeopathy, I do want to chime in and verify that @ms-demeanor's definition is correct - my mom had this whole case of bottles with what were essentially little sugar tablets, and if we were sick or injured or having allergies or literally anything, she would consult the booklet that came with the kit for our symptoms, pull out whatever bottles were indicated, dissolve a tablet in a small amount of water, and have us hold that under our tongues for 1-2 minutes and then swallow it.

It actually did help my little sister a bit sometimes, probably from the placebo effect, because we'd been doing this basically her whole life, pretty much. It never did fuck all for me, but I had remembered going to the doctor as a little kid and getting medicine that actually worked when I was sick, like cough syrup, and I'd been pretty sure at 8 when we switched to a homeopath that it was bullshit, because it didn't make any sense.

I will note, however, that whenever we got a fever, my mom would still give us advil to bring our fever down, instead of relying on homeopathy. Makes me wonder how much she ACTUALLY believed in it.

superpika1of4

Huh, I always heard that homeopathy meant treatments that hadn't been proven in a study but, seemed to help at least a little

ruffboijuliaburnsides

Nope. Some homeopathic folks will try to sell it as that but homeopathy is fully bunk and has a very specific meaning. Some home remedies might work (either due to things like known natural remedies like ginger settling your stomach or the placebo effect like certain kinds of soda settling your stomach) but those aren't homeopathy.

captain-acab

Two things I want to expand on:

Homeopathy is *very specifically* the dilution of substances in water to use water's memory to treat illnesses on the principle of like treats like

"Like treats like" for homeopathists means that if you have a headache, you can put a droplet of cauliflower juice (because cauliflowers kinda look like brains, right? Therefore it must cure head pain!), diluting that drop of juice in a bottle of water, diluting a drop of that in a new bottle of water, and repeating this dilution process a hundred more times. This is the "water's memory" — it's diluted so much that there's literally not a single molecule of the original juice left in the solution that you will finally drink.

If that sounds like the stupidest bullshit you've ever heard? Congrats, you have an accurate understanding of homeopathy.

Vaccines are preventative ONLY, they are not treatment for illness

You may read this and think, "Wait, I've definitely been told to get a vaccine *after* getting an infection. What's up with that?" There are a few diseases (notably Tetanus and Rabies) that involve immediately getting a vaccine as post-exposure treatment. That's because those particular infections spread slowly up your central nervous system. The point of getting the vaccine immediately after exposure is to teach your immune system how to fight off the infection before it reaches your brain and kills you.

hesperocyon-lesbian

thewoodbinewitch

What always gets me is that homeopathy uses "water's memory" in the same way as the Vatican mass produces holy water and if that ain't a poignant commentary on magical thinking I don't know what is